I can't ask her in person. I don't trust myself to do that right, not yet.
Oh oh, sounds like a very shy guy that has a crush on a female, is this correct? I work with many females and can see through their motives. Remember this, actions prove louder than words. This is how you should approach it. Tell her you find her very interesting and would like to know her better. Prepare your heart for a negative response keeping in mind that every person has their own personal preferences in the opposite gender. Do not take offense if her response is negative but accept it and go from there. If it is a positive response exchange email or cell numbers. That is a good way to start. It could eventually lead to an opportunity for an in person meeting at a place she is comfortable. If you two find each other attractive on the same level and you make a move towards a physical relationship, treat it as a marriage. Because that is what a marriage is, the joining of man and women and the two become one flesh. It does not require a marriage certificate, so do not allow other people to judge you. GOD did not require a certificate between Adam and Eve did He?
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